A Great Marriage Story


My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into the marriage, I must admit, that I am getting tired of it. The explanations of me loving him before has now transformed into the reason for all my restlessness.
I’m a sentimental lady and very sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my emotions, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my exact opposite, his lack of sensitivity and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to inform him of my choice, that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I’m tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the entire evening, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And eventually, he asked me:” What can I do to change your thoughts?”
Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I assume, I’ve started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Right here is the question, when you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are certain that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said:” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and noticed a piece of paper together with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes…. My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
“When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way. You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom. You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet and die. ”
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading… “Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk… I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread….
Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…
That’s life and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the dullest and boring form... flowers and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win the argument.

7 Signs Your Guardian Angel Is Trying to Contact You


Angels are spiritual beings, which guide us. Although they have a much different frequency compared to humans, their guidance comes in the form of channeled messages, dreams, and directly receiving insight. Therefore, there are many signs which show us that the angels are around us and they are trying to contact us. These signs may seem small and meaningless at the beginning, but over time they may increase in frequency and size.
These spiritual beings send us signs, which are a symbolic reminder of their love and support. Therefore, we present you some of the most common signs from the angels. You may start noticing these signs because you need some validation or answer to a question you may have asked, or they may serve to simply remind you your angels are with you.
Feathers
If you find feathers on your path, it is one of the signs of the angels. This is an amazing reminder that angels are near, loving and supporting you. If you experience this situation, then enjoy in this powerful angelic sign.
Clouds
If you notice a cloud which looks like an angel, it means that your angel is near to you and in this way it is showing its presence.
Scents
If you feel a lovely sweet scent and you are unable to identify the source, it indicates that your angel is near you.
Babies and Pets
If you notice a baby looking up smiling at the ceiling, or excitedly gazing into the air, it means that the guardian angel is present. When an angel is present, babies and pets seem to be at ease.
Music
If you hear angelic singing or a nice sound that you cannot explain, it may be a clear sign from your angel.
Coins
If you keep on finding coins, it is a sign for your angel and a symbol of support. So, if you find coins, you should know that you’re loved, supported and guided.
Sparkles of Light
If you start noticing orbs, unexplained shimmers of light, or flashes of color, it means that your guardian angel is near. If you experience this, you should close your eyes, relax, and breathe because your angel is trying to bring you healing, upliftment, and rejuvenation.
source and courtesy: thebestremedies.com

THIS Is The Biggest Difference Between A FAKE Empath And A Real One

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You’ve probably heard someone calling themselves an Empath and describing themselves as oversensitive.

But most people who use this term are just a-holes hiding behind the terminology.

They have been hurt at some point in their life (like we all have) and they try to justify their weakness by hiding behind this term. It’s like their shield.
They are safe from questioning themselves because they’ve identified with being an ‘Empath’ – someone who feels too much and is here to help the world with their emotions because everyone else is ruining it. At least that’s what they make out of it.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are real empaths who have psychochemical imbalance and respond to the outside world more sensitively than others.
Because their emotions are a big part of their life, bigger than for other people, their emotional intelligence is slightly higher.
That’s not something they carry on their forehead, telling everyone they meet they are empaths. Just like a person with an OCD doesn’t open a conversation with ‘because I am over intelligent and see patterns everywhere…’
It doesn’t matter if you see patterns others can’t, if you feel too much, if you eat only vegetables, or like to meditate. Being a good person is beyond that.
It demands to face your own demons, not hiding away from them and projecting them upon the world.
And that’s something most people would rather mask, in return creating the bad world they blame everyone else for.

Here is how a FAKE Empath sees the world:Fake Empath

Empath:  One who has a high degree of sensitivity and caring to the feelings of others, to the point it can become a problem. If your client is occasionally saddened by ads about abandoned animals or starving children, it’s because they have a unique and wonderful superpower. Please note that one of the most common signs that your client is an empath is that he/she is highly responsive to flattery.
Sociopath: Anyone who hurts an empath’s feelings, especially within the context of a romantic relationship. Examples include someone who forgets an anniversary, leaves the toilet seat in the wrong position, forgets to pick something up from the store, or has to be told to pick something up from the store.
Psychopath: Anyone who hurts an empath’s feelings, especially within the context of the breakup of a romantic relationship. Symptoms include having different tastes in movies or TV or music than an empath does or forgetting to pick something up from the store twice in a row.
Narcissist: A person they care for that doesn’t give them an equal amount of attention, and is more focused on their self. A simple interaction with them is emotionally draining because ‘Empaths’ invest too much of themselves in the ‘relationship’ giving everything to the other person, and they get abused. The other person might simply don’t care that much, or don’t feel the same way.
Caring and Concerned: What empaths are when they express negative feelings.
Rageaholic: What sociopaths, narcissists or psychopaths are when they express their negative feelings to an empath.
Indigo Child: The offspring of an empath. An evolved soul who expresses him/herself freely and does not like being disciplined.
Demon Child: The offspring of a sociopath, narcissist or psychopath. May occasionally require discipline. Inherently inferior to an Indigo Child in every way.
Soulmate: That person you’ve been on three really good dates with.
Twin Flame: That same person after you’ve been in a good relationship for three months.
Satan Incarnate: That same person after you’ve lived with him/her for six months.

Here is how a real empath sees the world:

“I am a human being just like everyone else. I don’t care who you are if you are a good person I will like you. If you are not, I don't like you. But each and every single living being deserves respect, even the ones you hate the most.
You have every right in the whole world to not like me, just like I have every right in the whole world to not like you. I don’t need to judge you, but sometimes I will, and that’s my problem.
I know you are only human deep inside, troubling to face your own demons. We all do sometimes. We all have flaws. And sometimes we can get along, and it would be a good time. Deep inside, behind all that chatter and all those layers, we all love one another. That’s why we care.
The world doesn’t need saving. We need to learn how to live with each other. As far as I see, the world is alright for every other living thing, except us. So maybe there’s something wrong with the way we see the world, maybe it’s our own demons that fool us.
And yeah… I am kinda sensitive and perceive things more to the heart than others. That’s my horse, you don’t have to worry about it. I learn to ride it.”
 source: lifecoachcode

What Element is Your Spirit? Air, Water, Earth or Fire?

Everything in this Universe is connected and nothing is a coincidence. Often, we tend to forget that we are all spiritual beings experiencing human form and not a human being experiencing spirituality.
We are all the Universe itself expressing ourselves as humans. We come from the cosmos and have within us the 5 physical elements – Air, Water, Fire, Earth, and Ether. Ether is more recessive than dominant in nature.
Here’s a basic description as to what and who you will be based on the particular element you connect with, the most. For some people energies of all four elements is intense and they resonate with all four elements.
Everything in this Universe is connected and nothing is a coincidence. Often, we tend to forget that we are all spiritual beings experiencing human form and not a human being experiencing spirituality.
We are all the Universe itself expressing ourselves as humans. We come from the cosmos and have within us the 5 physical elements – Air, Water, Fire, Earth, and Ether. Ether is more recessive than dominant in nature.
Here’s a basic description as to what and who you will be based on the particular element you connect with, the most. For some people energies of all four elements is intense and they resonate with all four elements.

Identifying your own element –

# Fire Element
Fire spirits are here to deliver messages to the world. They have an eternal flame ablaze in their belly that always leads them to follow their dreams and conquer all. They do not have to take major steps to tune into their true flame – by being true self simply can create magic, unending for them. They can deliver the message when they are true to self.
When not in balance, a Fire Spirit can become too aggressive and excessively dominant in nature.
When out of balance Earth spirit can become very cold and they forget to hold on to the bigger picture. They are distant and anxious. They need to spend time in nature to find their balance.
# Air Element
Air spirits are present on Earth to bring innovation and vision. Their purpose is very divine and they are natural teachers and speakers. Air elements are strong visionaries and bring a lasting change through their revolutionary ideas and beliefs. They complete their journey through many lifetimes.
Air Spirits are guardians of peace and go at lengths to protect it. They have the natural abilities to solve any issue and resolve conflicts. Air spirits often begin to tune into their awakened selves through prophetic visions and dreams.
When out of balance they can sense conflict and close themselves from the situation rather than dealing with it. They also tend to lose their connection with people and the ability to heal or respond to difficult situations.
# Water Element
Water Spirits are here to heal through the aspects of art, music, and creativity. Highly intuitive, they are very experimental with their creative side and explore it all with an open mind and heart. Water elements are very sensitive to their surroundings and they can easily tap into people’s energy, it also happens even when they are not aware of it. They have a gift of intuition and can tap into other people quite easily.
A water element can awaken through simply by knowing who they are and allowing their creativity to flow freely. A water element is of a non-conformist nature and when forced to confirm they lose their balance and are out of sync.
When out of balance they are left feeling drained and overwhelmed. They become over sensitive and feel depressed and anxious. It becomes very important for a water sign to deal with their emotional side. Shedding that energy residue through tears helps a lot.
Do you connect with any of these elements or more than one? I personally connect with all of them. It is beautiful and empowering at the same time to get a deeper understanding of self.
source: themindsjournal

4 Zodiac Signs That Will NEVER Cheat on You!

There are people, who promise you the world. They promise to love you forever, to be there for you and to protect you. Some, of course, keep their promises, but others only say but never do.

In a relationship honesty and dedication is everything. If you cannot trust the person you are with, there cannot be a long future for the two of you. If the person lies to you once, he will probably do it again, so be aware.
All of us deserve to be treated nicely. Your partner should appreciate you and value you enough, to be honest, and real with you. If they cannot see, how lucky they are to be with you, you should not waste your time on them.
Of course, loyalty and honesty depend on a person, but these features are influenced by Zodiac signs as well. Here are 4 Zodiac signs, that never cheat:

1. TAURUS (APRIL 20 – MAY 20)

Taurus look for safety and stability. When they like somebody, they want to settle down and live happily ever after. They do not like drama or playing games. If Taurus like someone, they will be completely honest about it. Taurus is also real with their partner, if something bothers them or the feelings go away, they will rather be honest about it, then cheat.
2. VIRGO (AUGUST 23 – SEPTEMBER 22)
Virgos are very passionate, and when they love, they love with their whole body and mind. Virgos are very kind-hearted people, who always want to help others. They hate dishonesty and fake people, so do not try to cheat on them. They have an extra sense for discovering lies and understanding when they have been played. Virgos expect honesty, and that’s why they are honest themselves.
3. LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23 – OCTOBER 22)
Libras try to avoid any drama and arguments. They want to live peacefully and get along with everybody. Libras are also very reasonable and make rational decisions. Even if they get feelings for someone else, they will break it off with their current partner before starting something new. Usually, Libras like to stay in a relationship for a long time. They are not about excitement and jumping from one crush to another. So dating a Libra is quite safe.
4. PISCES (FEBRUARY 19 – MARCH 20)
Pisces are very committed people. When they find someone they love, they give all their time, energy and mind to that person. When Pisces is in a relationship, they do not have eyes for other people. So it is very unlikely that they will ever cheat on you. Pisces tend to treat their partners like princesses or princes. They value their relationship and remember to show it every single day.
Although these are the 4 Zodiac signs, who are most unlikely to cheat, it does not mean that others definitely will.  In the end, it honestly depends on the relationship and the person you are with. The most important thing is communication, so you both understand each other’s terms. When you are saying what you mean and being honest with each other, the relationship will last forever.